Swipe This! Is it wrong to lie about my…

You told a little white lie, and it blew up in your face.

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It wasn’t my intention to deceive anyone. But when I turned 40, I noticed that my dating options shifted. I was only matching with men who were much older or much younger than me. I wanted to meet someone closer to my age. So I shaved off three years and said I was 37.

Then I met someone lovely. He was 38-so actually only two years younger than me! It was fairly casual at first, but we were having great fun. A few months in, I realized we had the potential to be more serious. Read more “Swipe This! Is it wrong to lie about my age on a dating app?” →